Impromptu Thought

Although I still am 'hiatusing' I was struck by a thought today that I thought I should share 2 impotant musings.

1)Risk Assessment:
Now if you haven't already, you probably will end up having a girl break your heart at one point or another. It sucks, yes, however you need to think about the future in a positive way. It happens once, yes, it could happen again, yes BUT that makes the risk you take with girls all the more worthwhile. It's knowing that you could be thrown right down on your ass again and doing it again that really shows you both value the person you ask out next and appreciate what you have even more.

2)Recognize what you're in it for:
There are some that will disagree with me, but I think it's important to keep in mind that you're not just picking up objects when you go out - but real people with feelings. If you're in it just for sex you may find yourself simply having lots of empty sex. Now there's nothing wrong with this - as long as you can recognize that no pickup will work as well as the one you really mean. You should have a genuine interest in getting to know the girl better before you jump into bed. That being said - there's nothing wrong with getting some experience ;)