Tells - What is she thinking?

While on a date many people tend to be wondering a few specific things which can throw them off and end up with a disastrous night. One of them is 'will she go home with me?' - this question is usually getting ahead of itself and if you let it, will take care of itself with time.

The other is 'what is she thinking right now?' which really means 'what does she think of me?' No one I know is a true mind reader, but here are a few tells and tips for you to help to understand what is going on in her head. If, during the conversation, she is paying attention to you and rarely breaking eye contact, you are doing a good job of entertaining her and she is probably having a good time. Most girls, if they tend to lean forward on the table are more outgoing and confident in themselves. This tells you that she is looking for something a little bit different, a little edgy and daring - and she expects you to show her to it. If your date spends most of her time sitting back in her chair, with her arms very close to her body or clasped together, it is usually a sign that she is losing interest.

When on a date or just around ladies, not recognizing body-language flirting is a great loss. If a girl gives a glance from under her eyelashes, it is a very good sign of interest since it is a conscious move to see if you are as interested in her as she is in you. If in a standing position a lady leans towards you with her head up and inner arms exposed, it can be a conscious or unconscious expression that they approve of you in some way.

To get an idea if a girl finds you attractive you can play a little bit of a trick. While having a conversation you can use mirrors to see if she's giving you the 'upand down' in the mirror if you look away for a few seconds. Make sure you do it while you have either a plausible excuse for looking away(for something possibly), or during a comfortable silence or even if someone else happens to be talking. You can also use your peripheral vision when you look away to see if she switches from looking to your face to looking at the rest of you. If she does, you have a pretty good idea that she finds you attractive, if not - don't worry, not everyone will take every opportunity to check someone out.