Starting Grounds

Although you may be ready to go try out a few of the tips given, everyone crawls before they walk. There are situations where it's much easyer to meet and pick up women than walking by them on the street. This is where having a middleman is in your interest. Being able to have someone introduce you says that they credit you as being a good enough person to introduce to their friends. That is what I call a foot in the door. So big deal, you might think, I still have to find something in common so I can talk to her. Wrong. You already have the middleman to talk about. Now it's not exactly polite to talk about the middleman in front of him or her, so give it a few minutes and wait for an opportunity when they leave to get another drink or use the bathroom or something. In the meantime, you can pay attention to the general conversation and see if you can find anything that you can use. This is extremely beneficial since it gives you an inside line right from the start. You can get a feel for the person immediately in a social situation that it's ok not to talk too much right away. This is a lot of pressure released when compared to going solo or in pairs up to ladies that you don't know yet. Now, although having a middleman is beneficial, if you're looking for an easy lay, this is probably not the best time, since it can mess up friendships and possible new opportunities. Despite this, the call is always yours. Just don't let it give you a reputation unless you want it to.

Now that you have a new aquaintance, you can usually do one of two things. Try for the aquaintance, or see if you can get a second introduction to another of her friends. This is where it pays to know a little background information which you can get from your middleman. From there play to your strengths and see if the right situation, atmosphere, and conversation come together in your favour.