Walking the Line

When dating or simply seeing women, there is a fine line to walk when knowing how to keep her wanting more of you. Oddly enough, this involves knowing when NOT to be around. Appreciation of someone can be increased if you notice their absence. Now granted, it is not a good idea to meet her once and never talk to her again - this will not work. So what is the perfect balance to make her want you? Once again this is the fine line. Take for example, the slow route to getting with a woman. You become aquaintances and talk to each other when you see each other and you've been around each other fairly often, say aounrd 5 hours a week or more. Now changing your schedule for a week or so will tell you if this is a good idea next time you see her. If she's wondering where you've been - that's a good sign. Be ready to pick up on any sign that she missed you for one reason or another. If it's simply a polite interest, chances are you should change your approach, or move on. Which you choose is a judgement call. Also, when you see her after being a little scarce, try to make a good impression again. Don't offer to do anything for her, just try to be witty within the first little while of talking to each other again. This can either enhance your standing with her, or nudge her into thinking of you in ways she wasn't before. No matter what, always walk the line. Don't be too available, but be aroudn when needed. You'll have to pay attention to know, but it always pays off when you offer help or do her a favour when she wasn't sure who to turn to. This way, next time she turns, it will be to you.