If you're swinging women, dating women, or in a relationship with one, this part never gets old. Surprising a girl just when she thinks she's getting to know you can be exciting for her. Mystery is always enticing and new, so keeping a little bit of information about yourself can be beneficial. This can be something that you didn't even realize you could use. For example, if I were to have been to Kenya and brought up the topic of travel, she'll be entrigued about it. Now you get to impress her with your 'worldlyness' that she didn't have a clue you had. Knowing your audience is important in this area as well. Most people do have an interest in travelling, so it's a fairly safe bet, but don't come out with anything too left-field(unless she liles that).
After mentioning the little tidbit about yourself, if she's surprised enough to say something along the lines of 'really?' then you can say something along the lines of, 'I must just have a talent for surprising you.' If that's something you can say without going against the grain of your character. The reason for saying you can surprise her so blatently, helps her subconsciously think of you in a mysterious way. However, if you do this only once and continue to be totally predictable, it loses effect.
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